This is part of on ongoing series critiquing a book out there called “Divorce War!” I write more about the series on the page called “Divorce War DON’TS”. The book lists 50 strategies. Some are legitimate and some are not and these are potentially or actually unethical or criminal. I’m reviewing all 50 strategies with a “don’t” perspective.

DON’T#7. Find and review your husband’s tax returns.

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A really good general resource is Mediate.com, the most visited conflict resolution site on the web. It has a good selection of free articles. Use the search box in the upper right corner on their home page.

(I have to add this: NOTHING in this blog including these posts “How NOT to Leave Your Lover” is “legal advice.” I don’t know you, or what is happening with you and your case, or your goals. If you need legal advice, you will need to find, hire and pay a lawyer.)

This is part of on ongoing series critiquing a book out there called “Divorce War!” I write more about the series on the page called “Divorce War DON’TS”. The book lists 50 strategies. Some are legitimate and some are not and these are potentially or actually unethical or criminal. I’m reviewing all 50 strategies with a “don’t” perspective.

DON’T#6. Never confide your plan to a relative or friend, no matter how close you are to them.

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A really good general resource is Mediate.com, the most visited conflict resolution site on the web. It has a good selection of free articles. Use the search box in the upper right corner on their home page.

(I have to add this: NOTHING in this blog including these posts “How NOT to Leave Your Lover” is “legal advice.” I don’t know you, or what is happening with you and your case, or your goals. If you need legal advice, you will need to find, hire and pay a lawyer.)

This is part of on ongoing series critiquing a book out there called “Divorce War!” I write more about the series on the page called “Divorce War DON’TS”. The book lists 50 strategies. Some are legitimate and some are not and these are potentially or actually unethical or criminal. I’m reviewing all 50 strategies with a “don’t” perspective.

DON’T#5. Challenge your prenuptial or post-nuptial contract whenever you have any real basis for challenge, regardless how small.

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A really good general resource is Mediate.com, the most visited conflict resolution site on the web. It has a good selection of free articles. Use the search box in the upper right corner on their home page.

(I have to add this: NOTHING in this blog including these posts “How NOT to Leave Your Lover” is “legal advice.” I don’t know you, or what is happening with you and your case, or your goals. If you need legal advice, you will need to find, hire and pay a lawyer.)

This is a link to conclusion of a series over at my New Mexico Bankruptcy Blog excerpting Eugene S. Melchionne’s series, Top Ten Personal Financial Mistakes, from his website Bankruptcy Law Network.

Part 11: Failing to Act When Necessary

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This is part of on ongoing series critiquing a book out there called “Divorce War!” I write more about the series on the page called “Divorce War DON’TS”. The book lists 50 strategies. Some are legitimate and some are not and these are potentially or actually unethical or criminal. I’m reviewing all 50 strategies with a “don’t” perspective.

DON’T#4. Save at least five thousand dollars. You may need it for your attorney.

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A really good general resource is Mediate.com, the most visited conflict resolution site on the web. It has a good selection of free articles. Use the search box in the upper right corner on their home page.

(I have to add this: NOTHING in this blog including these posts “How NOT to Leave Your Lover” is “legal advice.” I don’t know you, or what is happening with you and your case, or your goals. If you need legal advice, you will need to find, hire and pay a lawyer.)

This is a link to part of a series over at my New Mexico Bankruptcy Blog excerpting Eugene S. Melchionne’s series, Top Ten Personal Financial Mistakes, from his website Bankruptcy Law Network.

Part 10: Emotional Spending